Dorothy Ann Dais
May 30, 1936 - August 1, 2024
In Loving Memory
Dorothy Ann Dais BSc, BEd, ARCT
Surrounded by loved ones, Dorothy (Dottie) Dais passed away in Vernon, BC at the age of 88. Dottie was born in Dallas, Texas on May 30, 1936, to Raymond Ernest Horsefield and Ellen (nee Crawford) Horsefield. She is survived by daughters Julia Dais (Craig Smith) and Jacqueline Dais-Visca (Rick Visca) as well as grandchildren Charlie (Skye), Madeleine, Katie, and Thomas. She is survived by her sister-in-law Joan Horsefield (David Horsefield deceased).
Dottie graduated from Needham High School in 1953. From a young age, Dottie loved to sing. She attended University of Massachusetts in the music program for two years and then spent the next three summer, from 1955-1957, with a United Services Organization (USO) group of performers assembled by Dottie’s High School Music Director who invited Dottie to join as the group’s classical singer. The USO group also included, among other performers, a jazz band, a cowboy who did rope tricks, a female contortionist, and several Rockettes. The group performed in Iceland, Germany, the Azores, many Caribbean islands and Panama. Highlights included island hopping in stripped-down military aircraft (no seats, no problem) and performing for thousands of US Military personnel at a base at the Panama Canal. Although Dottie’s original intent was to study music at the University of Massachusetts after 2 years she transferred to Simmons College (across the street from Harvard) where she obtained a bachelor’s degree in microbiology. During the cold war, Dottie put her microbiology skills to use at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) working in the field of biological weapons technology, as a response to potential Russian use of weaponized anthrax. (She’s pretty sure she didn’t sign an NDA.) She met her future husband at a Simmons College/Harvard University dance. After several years of dating, while he finished his law degree, she and Eugene Elbert Dais were married in 1958. Upon his graduation from Harvard he was offered a position at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, while mom found employment in a molecular lab. Both daughters were born soon after. Eventually Eugene’s career led to a move to Calgary, AB, Canada in 1968. Dottie had trouble finding satisfying work and decided to go back to university and earn her Bachelor of Education degree. She discovered quickly that teaching large classes of middle school students was not for her (too many seats, too many problems). Instead, she returned to her first love, singing. For many years, Dottie sang in the Calgary Opera Chorus, was the solo performer at Knox United Church, and lovingly sang Ave Maria at her daughter Jackie’s wedding. To top it off, Dottie achieved a silver medal standing with her National Association of Music Teachers certification and she was recognized as “Best in the Province”. When her first grandchild was born, she moved to the Okanagan where she was able to live out her dream of retiring by a beautiful body of water. Every morning, she would watch the sun rise over Kalamalka Lake (lake of many colours) and enjoy the close knit community of Blue Water. Dottie was a lifelong adopter of dogs in need of a home, so in lieu of flowers please consider donating to your local animal rescue group or contribute to Elder Dog Canada. https://elderdog.ca/
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Comments: 8
Sending you my condolences. She is somewhere visiting all of pup friends!
Julie we are so sorry to hear of your Moms passing. She had such a wonderful spirit!
Thinking of you, Jackie and your families
Sandy
May fond memories of your mom bring you comfort during this hard time in your life. Look back on all the good memories you were able to have and smile at the fact that you were able to share these before she left this world. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family
Our deepest sympathy and prayers to all. Dan,Maria,Daniela & Giuliana
Sorry for your loss Jackie, your Mom sounds like a wonderful person and I would have loved to hear her sing! My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Jackie,
So sorry for the loss of your Mother. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. Peter and I hope that your Mom’s memories will be a blessing.
Jackie and Family,
My condolences for your loss. With the obituary, you have created a wonderful portrait of your mom as an intelligent and accomplished woman as well as a loving family member. It is always so difficult to lose a parent. I have also found it to be a time of reflection — internally, but also a time of shared reflections and recollections as the family gathers. I found tremendous comfort (and, frankly, quite a lot of fun) in those family gatherings and I hope that’s the case for you as well.
Wishing you well,
Karen Lovell
Dottie was a neighbor and friend when we both lived in Varsity in Calgary. We got to know each other because our husbands both taught at the University of Calgary law school. I loved Dottie. She was really, really nice…….warm, friendly, kind, very positive , sometimes funny, and very modest about her own considerable accomplishments. It was hard to get her to talk about herself, but she was very proud of her daughters, and would tell me about their achievements without trying to brag. I remember she used to host a Boxing Day Brunch that we were invited to a few times. I could never figure out how she could do that the day after Christmas!
I am so sorry that she has passed on, but I will remember her very fondly. My condolences to her family who I know will be missing her terribly.